It can be hard to do this at first, but you have to do it clearly and with love. You can love someone and still need to establish boundaries so that the relationship is healthy. If you are around a person and it’s constantly toxic, you have to identify if it’s a them issue or a me issue. They keep us from just canceling people out of our lives, but we can create healthy boundaries so that we can coexist in our lives. You feel like a victim to your situation.īoundaries are protection. You feel like you have to do whatever it takes to make people happy. Your relationships tend to be difficult or dramatic. “Above all else, guard your heart, for out of it comes every other issue.” - Proverbs 4:23 If you don’t establish healthy boundaries, people can take advantage of you and make you miserable. Setting boundaries teaches people how to treat you. Today on the Joie Miller Podcast, we're talking about the signs that you may need to set boundaries, how to establish your no, and allow time to heal and become healthy. If you've been feeling frustrated and burnt out, you need to learn how to set boundaries and find peace in your life. Still, many Christians will hesitate to draw boundary lines because they don't want to be unloving. God never intended for us to feel like we are victims of our relationships.
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